You may be here because you know that your marriage is in trouble but what are the signs that tell you this?
And what are your particular marriage problems and are they bad enough to make you want to leave your marriage?
For example.
- Do you have the “martyr syndrome” and feel unappreciated in your marriage? Nobody like to feel like a ‘doormat’ do they?
- Has your spouses behaviour towards you changed for the worse? Have they become nasty towards you and possibly violent? Are they physically or mentally abusive ?
- Do you suffer from your partner’s jealousy and insecurity? This can make life miserable for the one being accused of doing something when they are innocent of any wrongdoing.
- Do you suspect your spouse is having an affair? There are many signs of an affair if you only know where to look. You can overcome an affair with the right attitude and help.
- Are you simply falling out of love with your spouse? Maybe you don’t find them attractive any more? If you feel the romantic spark has gone from your marriage, you are not alone but it can be rekindled.
- Are you in a sexless marriage? Is your spouse become emotionally cold towards you? There are many causes of a sexless marriage, both physical and phychological.
- Do you feel insecure about something or want to talk about problems that are bothering you but you are scared your spouse will perceive it as “negative,” so you bottle it all up inside to avoid trouble?
Please tell us what you think are some of the signs that mean your marriage is in trouble.
You can tell us in the comments box further down the page.
I have been married to my husbands 13 years, we were together for 3 before that. A few days ago,
my husband admitted to cheating on me about 4 months ago. I love this man with all my heart. Even though I hurt so bad, I forgive him . we have been trying to rebuild our relationship. But I’m having a hard period time trusting him and I can’t tell if I’m being overly paranoid or if I truly have something to worry about.I don’t know how to talk to him about my concerns without him becoming defensive, but I need reassurance.
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2 weeks before our 1 yr old daughter was born we started arguing. From then on it got worse and worse to the point where we don’t have sex, kiss, cuddle, hold hands or go anywhere together. When I complain that he does not take me anywhere he responds “well get some friends”. Whenever I ask him why he has changed he sais its because I don’t let him go out, the relationship has gone stale and I argue with him all the time. The majority of the time his response is “shut up I’m tired” “or shut up I’m watching tv”. I have no idea what to do!!!!!
In our 13 years of marriage, I have been the head of the family(breadwinner) and he has been the house husband. As a wife, there are things I desire in our home that I expect my husband would do(except conception) in my absence being an office worker. Since we are in exchanged roles, I expect he’d do things a wife must do to their home, kids and spouse as I did a husband’s role to support the family. I don’t feel my worth is appreciated in any way but abused by depending on me even in the household.
I have given him the chance to support the family while I’d be the housewife, but it only lasted for a few months. He can’t keep a job, and even not effective to financially, emotionally and physically support us during those few months, when he’s supposed to have enough income, time and resources.
I am almost fed up of his promises and actions for reformations that seems like drama.
I feel as if my husband loves our daughter more than my son. My son was in the picture before we started dating and he seemed to adore him. Now all i see him doing is yelling at him. It hurts me to think that now that i gave him a daughter of his own that my son is going to get pussed aside by the man he calls Daddy. I also do to this and many other bad habits that he has feel like i am no longer attracted to him physically nor emotionally. I dont know if this can be helped or not…????