Why Do Men Have Affairs?

Why do men have affairs, is it simply because they no longer find their wife attractive and just want someone younger and sexier? There’s no doubt that in some cases physical attraction plays a part but this is not always true. In many cases it’s nothing to do with looks, it’s because of some emotional [...] Read more »

Recovering From an Affair

An affair is one of the worst things that can happen to a marriage and is often so unexpected that the shock of discovering the affair leaves the previously unsuspecting partner reeling. Putting the marriage back together after an affair is no easy task and it will take time to get over the damaged emotions [...] Read more »

What Makes a Spouse Vulnerable to an Affair?

Do you ever worry about your spouse becoming involved in an affair? Have you wondered what makes a spouse easy prey for someone else who’s looking for an excuse to stray? If so, then you have plenty of company. Given all the news stories and movies about cheating spouses, you’d have to be an ostrich [...] Read more »

Why Retaliation Affairs Only Make Things Worse

It’s not unusual for a spouse whose partner has had an affair to have a “get even” or “retaliation affair.” The feelings of betrayal and the emotional pain are so devastating that the spouse may want to hurt the partner like he (or she) has been hurt. Read more »

How does a woman in a sexless marriage cope?

Coping in a sexless marriage can be a real challenge. But, then, much of life can be a real challenge. Rather than focusing on the specific challenge, let me first invite you to think about the broad question of how to cope with life, and then how a woman can cope in a sexless marriage. Read more »

Do Sexless Marriages Have To Lead To Divorce?

If your sexless marriage is causing you great concern, you may think that the problem is insurmountable and looking around for marriage counselor or a divorce lawyer seems inevitable but this is not always the case. A lack of sexual intimacy is a factor in many failing marriages and finding a solution may not be [...] Read more »