After a marriage crisis such as an affair, the guilty partner often promises to change but the problem is can you really trust them? Have they really changed or are they just pretending to have changed? It is not easy to restore the trust in a marriage after an affair so how can you tell [...] Read more »
The Revenge Affair – Characteristics of the Adulterer
Not all affairs are the same. In fact, there are a number of different kinds of affairs and each one has it’s own particular characteristics. In this article by Dr. Robert Huizenga he describes the revenge affair and the characteristics of the adulterer. Read more »
After An Affair What Next?

After an affair what should you do next? It’s a difficult thing to deal with, but ‘How To Break Free From The Affair’ will show you the right way to proceed, and how to learn to trust your cheating spouse once again. You will also will discover that what works for one kind of affair [...] Read more »
Why Do Men Have Affairs?
Why do men have affairs, is it simply because they no longer find their wife attractive and just want someone younger and sexier? There’s no doubt that in some cases physical attraction plays a part but this is not always true. In many cases it’s nothing to do with looks, it’s because of some emotional [...] Read more »
Forty Six Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair
Some of these signs of a cheating spouse are ‘tongue in cheek’ while others are tell tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife. There is no copyright. Feel free to forward to those who might be interested. But please don’t change anything. Read more »
Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It
Infidelity has different faces…and different signs and patterns. Yes, infidelity is complex. You probably know that or perhaps feel the overwhelm and confusion. Most I work with find tremendous relief, a sense of control, confidence and power once they pinpoint the situational signs of infidelity. Understanding IS the beginning of healing. Read more »
When Sexual Addiction and Infidelity Meet
One kind of extramarital affair revolves around sexual addiction. The partner involved in the affair, plain and simple, has a difficult time saying “NO.” He/she may want to, but feels compelled to say “yes.” People can’t say no? Well, I believe we all have the capacity, at some level, to say no. However, not all [...] Read more »
What Everyone Needs to Know About Extramarital Affairs
Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital infidelity. Read more »