Marriages can have troubled times. Maybe it’s because of infidelity or the quiet drifting apart of a long term marriage – in any case, when your marriage is having tough times, you need help to make things right again. However, not everyone has the resources or the time to seek professional help. The good news [...] Read more »
Ending An Affair
Ending an affair can be difficult. In a way, you have been behaving like a person addicted to a drug. When a person is addicted to drugs, the drug gives, or gave, the person wonderful feelings. (That’s why someone gets addicted in the first place.) Similarly, the affair gave you wonderful feelings at some point; [...] Read more »
Neglecting Your Own Needs
Have you ever taken the time to stop and consider what you need out of your relationship? If you have, do you express these needs openly and honestly with your partner without blaming them for not having filled these needs? Or are you one of the many people out there who feel they don’t have [...] Read more »
The Six Critical Rules for Ending an Affair
Ending an affair is not easy. You will likely face quite a lot of emotional difficulty when you end the affair. But, it is necessary to face this pain in order to restore your relationship. What you need is a set of guidelines to help you to end the affair for good. Read more »
Signs of Infidelity: My Marriage Made Me Do It
Infidelity has different faces…and different signs and patterns. Yes, infidelity is complex. You probably know that or perhaps feel the overwhelm and confusion. Most I work with find tremendous relief, a sense of control, confidence and power once they pinpoint the situational signs of infidelity. Understanding IS the beginning of healing. Read more »
Eight Heart-Wrenching Emotions You Will Face
Almost everyone faces these eight emotions when they find out about an affair. If you think you aren’t feeling one of them, I encourage you to look very closely at yourself and make sure it isn’t there. Read more »
The Three Symptoms of Affair Withdrawal
When you end the affair, you might get a feeling of withdrawal. Being in an affair is a lot like being addicted to a drug. This means that when you end the affair you will have to go through the uncomfortable experience of withdrawal before you can be clean again. Read more »