Is repairing a sexless marriage possible? There is no black-or-white answer to this question. The best way to ask the question is like this: What is the probability that my sexless marriage, with its own specific challenges, can be remedied?
You aren’t going to know the answer until after you do some deep thinking on your sexless marriage. I am being as honest right now as I can be. I can’t tell you what the probability is for change in your relationship. But I can tell you something of what you ought to do to see what the probability for change actually is.
For you to find out you will have to try to uncover the root causes, and then you will have to apply what you have found to address the real problems.
Obviously, the more you understand, the better off you will be. The better you get at handling your anxiety about dealing with the tough stuff, the better off you will be. The more you can adapt and change, the better off you will be.
As you dig into the real issues you will have to look at 5 Challenging Areas.
First:What biological problems might be impacting you, your partner, and thus your relationship?
Second: What relationship problems might be getting in the way of enjoying sex together?
Third: What particular cultural issues about right and wrong might be blocking you?
Fourth: What personal issues, what struggles with the way you think or feel, are keeping you stuck?
Fifth: What spiritual and/or energetic issues might be sapping you from the ability to relax and free-fall into a relationship of bliss?
So let me say it again, but in a different way.
There is some probability that you can change your sexless marriage, but you won’t know how high the probability is until you dig deeper into the changes you will have to make.
People very often don’t do the work for fear that they will discover that it will take a lot of work, and a lot of hard work.
There is always hope…
And if nothing can be changed hope will always remain. Your marriage can become better, one way or another. It’s entirely up to you as married life is what you make it.
Ladies, if you feel the passion has gone out of your marriage and you need advice on how to make your husband fall in love with you again then you might be interested in: Get Him In The Mood.
It was specially created by a woman for all women stuck in a sexless marriage. It contains valuable advice on how to bring back the intimacy in your marriage.
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BURRR!!! Our bedroom is cold its the dead zone.
Married 43 years, want to know what the heck is sex, passion,intimacy. Weve been without sex for so long its something we just don’t care about anymore.
First 23 years sex was a chore or a burden. Maybe if we were lucky once a month. The next 20 years no sex at all. Our case is dead buried and forgotten about. Lots more to story!!
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