Comments on: How to Handle Control Issues That Cause Marriage Problems

By: rose white

rose white — Tue, 31 May 2011 06:52:28 +0000

give the guy some respect and let him have his nights out with his mates – they’ll just go to a bar and drinks some booze and fantasize about being superstuds and then he’ll come home to you and if you’re happy and give him a nice hello he’ll love you for it.
let him have his nights out and get a bunch of girlfriends to come round once or twice a week to give you something to look forward to.

By: DAVID CHANTLER

DAVID CHANTLER — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 22:04:46 +0000

My wife is a control freak.
One thing that I find hard to deal with is that I have to visit friends and relatives that I don’t want to see.
This is particularly the case of her sister-in-law-I have to visit them even though I feel very awkard being there-(my wifes ex-husband sister who are also obsessed with my none-absents!).
My wife always tries to make me feel bad. All the time I try to remain calm (talk softly).
Have you got any advice on how best to approach this stressful obsession?

By: Teena

Teena — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 23:03:30 +0000

I think I might be the control freak here. I don’t want to lose my boyfriend who will soon be my husband. We’re having a baby together and he is due in just over 2 months. Everything seemed to have been getting better but today we had a huge back-fall. I don’t know what to do. I can’t stop my irrational behavior. I’ve tried. Is there any advice you can give me. He believes I’m controlling because I get angry when he wants to do things without me. For the past year EVERYTHING I’ve done, has been with him. I can’t function on my own. I always feel out of place if I’m out doing something without him. Or I feel completely lost when I’m at home by myself and he is out doing something. Please help!!!