An affair is one of the worst things that can happen to a marriage, as I know from bitter experience. Getting over an affair is tough but sadly, at this very moment, thousands of people are suffering the overwhelming emotional pain of an affair.

Questions about the affair flood into your head and all you want is the answers to try to make sense of it all before it drives you sick with worry.

Images of what might have happened during the affair flash through your mind making for sleepless night trying to eliminate them from your thoughts. [click to continue…]

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A man in the chat rooms ran away with my wife and ended my marriage. My wife actually met him on Yahoo Chat as many cheating wives have done, and still are doing at this very moment.

I haven’t seen him in person, which is lucky for him, but I know someone who has and they helped me to find his picture on the internet. He is not handsome and looks quite old, even though he is younger than me, which is a relief because she hasn’t chosen someone that makes me feel inferior.

I may regret writing this someday but at the moment I don’t really care about the future and it makes me feel better to get it off my chest instead of bottling it all up. Bottom line is I am past caring what happens now. [click to continue…]

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The title says it all really; my wife just left me out of the blue for another man. And do you know where she met him? In a chat room.

She had been going on chat rooms for a few years and she had gotten emotionally involved with another man three years earlier but we managed to patch that up.

She stayed off the chat rooms for a while and then started going on them again but she seemed like she had learned her lesson so I didn’t really mind. Maybe I am too easy-going and trusting for my own good.

What a mistake that was. [click to continue…]

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Are you drifting apart from your spouse?

August 4, 2009

Get the feeling you are drifting apart from your spouse? You can rescue the relationship with a little renewed love and attention toward one another, like when you first married. Can you remember how great your marriage was back then? If you can’t then get out your wedding photos to remind yourself of how [...]

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Magic of Making Up – How to Get Back Together After a Breakup

June 18, 2009
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You may be reading this right now because you want to know how to deal with a marriage breakup too and more importantly, if you still love them, how to get back with your spouse again.
You are probably feeling a lot of heartache and pain at this moment. I understand because I have been there [...]

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Improve Your Sexlife by Lowering Your Blood Pressure

April 9, 2009
stethoscope on heart

I was co-writing a book with medical researcher Frank Mangano on lowering blood pressure without meds when I read this article from a medical journal about how “lowering blood pressure would help sexual-performance-problems.”
Ding. The lightbulb went off in my head.
You see, lowering blood pressure is probably the most healthy thing you can do for yourself.

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Why High Blood Pressure Affects Your Lovelife

April 8, 2009
pill-bottle

If high blood pressure is in the top five of our “Health Issues to Be Concerned About” lists, then how about the affect on our marriages and lovelife?
High blood pressure has a significant impact on a couple’s lovelife.
  Sex is a crucial part of any relationship, and when a loving couple is not [...]

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How To Avoid “I’m Not in the Mood”

April 7, 2009

A long week of work has finally reached its end. Sure, the week was difficult, but the main reason for its lengthiness was due to anticipation — anticipation of what the weekend held in store.
All weekends are great. But this weekend was billed to be WAY above average. Why? Because you were [...]

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Lessons for a Happy Marriage – Review

April 5, 2009

They say that marriage counselling as practised by Western psychologists has a success rate below 6 percent. Not a very promising statistic if you want to stop a divorce.
And they are supposed to be the experts on marriage, which suggests that they are not doing a very good job at saving marriages.
See How Lessons [...]

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Are Money Problems Pulling Your Marriage Apart?

January 25, 2009

Money problems are one of the main reasons a marriage can get into trouble. It is hard to keep a marriage happy when all you seem to think about is how to pay the bills and keep a roof over your head.

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Natural Hormone Solution For Menopause & Andropause

January 22, 2009

When most people hear the words “menopause” or “andropause”, they immediately think, “middle-age” and “misery”. After all, most people experience the onset of the end of their reproductive cycle during middle-age — and this is usually accompanied by emotionally and physically draining symptoms such as hot flashes, low libido, and mood swings.
However, the facts are [...]

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How to Handle the Financial Problems In Your Marriage

November 6, 2008
empty purse

Let’s just say that you and your spouse get along with each other just fine in most areas of your marriage. You have adequate communication skills. You have similar goals and dreams. The two of you have even found the right balance in your married life and personal pursuits. But then [...]

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Marriage Help for Men

November 6, 2008

When a man realizes that his marriage is in trouble, he often isn’t sure where to turn for help. The man’s mind typically sees a problem and wants a concrete solution to fix it immediately. Marriage help is not something that can alter your marriage problems instantly.

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Finding The Time for Your Marriage

November 5, 2008
sand timers

Today, married couples often have schedules that are hectic and chaotic. Many people feel that the day needs an extra ten or twelve hours to squeeze in everything on their to-do list. Whether you are working, keeping the house in shape, driving the kid’s sports event, or cooking dinner, it is hard to [...]

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Domestic Violence Situations Within a Marriage

November 4, 2008

Domestic violence is a term heard frequently in today’s society. Often, when people think of domestic violence they picture a man beating the stuffing out of his wife. Although this situation is an example of domestic violence, it is not the only example of domestic violence in a marriage. Domestic violence in [...]

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